What is anal sex?
Contrary to popular belief, anal sex doesn’t refer exclusively to the insertion of a penis into the anus. It can involve any kind of anal play whatsoever, including oral sex, stimulation with the hands and fingers, or the use of sex toys.
It’s a form of sexual pleasure enjoyed by just as many men as women, and you do not have to be a gay man to enjoy anal stimulation.
Common misconceptions
Traditionally viewed by the masses as dirty and dangerous, anal sex needs nothing. It can be just as safe and hygienic as conventional sex if done correctly.
Anal sex can be significantly less risky than conventional sex if the recipient would prefer to avoid unwanted pregnancy. There is practically zero risk of a woman being impregnated during anal sex, eliminating this risk from the equation.
Yes, risks of STIs apply in the same way as with any other type of sex, but are no greater with anal sex. You either use a condom, or you don’t, and you accept the risks you take as you would when having conventional sex.
Lastly, there’s no denying that trying anal sex for the first time can be an uncomfortable (if not downright painful) experience. Or to assume this will be the case every time you have anal sex is to miss the mark entirely.
After all, if it was a painful and unpleasant experience, why would hundreds of millions of people enjoy the hell out of it every day?
The truth is, the whole thing gradually becomes more comfortable and enjoyable over time. Stick with it (after starting slow), and you’ll soon see what you’ve been missing out on all this time.
How to bring it up to your partner
As for the tricky part of bringing the idea up with your partner, it’s entirely up to you how you go about it. Don’t instinctively assume that they will be into the idea, or try to persuade them to do something beyond their comfort zone. Instead, it’s far better to attempt to bring up the topic in passing and to gauge their reaction.
Of course, there’s nothing wrong with asking them outright if they want to try it or suggest it in the throes of a hot-and-heavy sex session. Either way, once you’ve brought it up in conversation just once, it’s something they’ll be thinking about, and you’ll soon have your answer.
The best anal porn comics for anal sex amateurs
Once again, a good way to gain insights into the wonderful (and sometimes weird) world of anal sex is to browse a selection of anal porn comics. Not necessarily the most extreme publications in circulation, but those that give you a good idea of the kinds of things you could try out for yourself.
If you think it’s something they’ll be into, you could even look at a few comics with your partner if you find that the whole thing turns both of you on in a big way; lucky you!
Still, it’s important to remember that the best anal porn comics for some people might not be right for others. You need to check out some good publications to find out what works for you and the kinds of things you’ll be able to bring into the bedroom.
Just be sure to remember that communication holds the key to safe and enjoyable anal sex. Unless it’s something you’re both on board with, it’s not something you should force upon anyone.